The Way To Your Happiness and The Solution To Your Struggles

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Happiness is what really matters most in our life. It is the common treasure that everyone desires. Most people go from place to place in search of happiness, while some find it in small things and in little moments. These few people probably know:

‘Happiness does not come from results of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.’

There are many secrets to be happy in life. Unfortunately, most people are unaware of it. There is need of an institution or a kind of “Happy Club” where people should be taught how to be happy. The institution does not need teachers, but children. Kids can be the best guide from whom we can learn most about happiness.

One of the distinctions I’ve found in children is that when they start crying, you can make them happy again by distracting them with some kind of toy or by performing an activity.

This is what human beings have lost. We’ve lost the capability to distract ourselves or to get away from the things that are causing us to suffer. A child knows about the many doors of happiness, but we’ve forgotten. Helen Keller, an American author, wrote aptly:

‘When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.’

How to deal with the struggle?

In these few years, I’ve written many articles, including a book. Almost, every article touched someone deeply.

It would be wrong to say I didn’t struggle while writing. Sometimes, I become so depressed that I spend whole day. even weeks, staring at the blank sheets.

To overcome the writer’s block, I reminded myself of the reward I would get after writing the articles. And this attitude of expecting positive results have always helped me

As the caterpillars try to emerge from the cocoon, fluids from the body get pushed into the wings, making them stronger and able to fly. Without that struggle, it is impossible to fly. This natural phenomenon of transformation of a caterpillar into a butterfly tells why it is necessary for a man to struggle and work hard. So now, the next time you feel giving up remind yourself what you would become if you achieve your aim.

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4 thoughts to “The Way To Your Happiness and The Solution To Your Struggles”

  1. Today I have really learned how can I live a happy life. I wish I would have read this blog when I was at the worst moment of my life. But now too it’s not late I guess . Thankyou Nakul Grover for being a grt writer n making me realise something.

    1. Your welcome, Neha. You can still live the way you want to live. Just a little of courage and everything would be alright right.
      Never lose hope in life and always stay awesome!! 🙂

  2. Hi Nakul,

    Awesome article, its very true that happiness is linked with Struggles, but the problem starts when we associated happiness only with comfort s

    Vipul Gupta

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